![]() (I know a lot of people let their kids play with their phones and I don’t think there’s anything wrong with that, I hope it didn’t come off that way. If I leave my phone sitting out somewhere, he just brings it to me. ![]() We have an old iPad that I let him use occasionally. When my first was a baby, I knew that I didn’t want him to think that he could always use my phone so we never let him play with it. Not being able to let him have dad’s phone in the future wouldn’t be a concern for me personally. Your husband could easily tell him what happened, that it shows up on the old phone and you and your child (in the future) use the phone too so it’s not private.Įven if he tells the neighbor and the neighbor stops, I’d still turn off messages on the old phone. I know for some people this wouldn’t be a big deal but these are things we discussed even before we got married and both agreed were not appropriate within a marriage. ![]() ![]() I really don’t think my husband is the type to enjoy or engage in this kind of stuff and just kind of smiles and nods but I don’t like him even seeing these pictures or having them on his phone. I’ve also seen a meme about cheating on your wife pop up). I just don’t see anything funny about sending a married man pictures of another woman’s boob or rear in just a g-string (and yes he has sent both of those). I’d argue he still doesn’t know him that well just an acquaintance who texts him frequently they’ve never a thing out. He started doing it basically right after he met my husband and before he really knew him. I’m not sure if his wife knows but based on the stuff he’s sending I don’t think he’s happily married and in my few encounters with her she complains about him a lot. Sorry to clarify the pictures are memes with writing on them (presumably found online) so he sends the to my husband intending to be funny. Not to mention we have a son who is Not far from the age where he will steal dad’s phone and play games etc and what if he stumbles across this. I’m not really sure how to broach this subject with my husband but it makes me uncomfortable that he is getting these pictures on his phone. I feel like if he says hey man these pictures make me uncomfortable then the guy would just write him off as thinking he’s better than him. He can’t really block the guys number because they live right next to us and they are friends with everyone in the neighborhood and it wouldn’t be good to burn a bridge there. Also I’m not sure what he can do about it. I haven’t been snooping through his phone looking at his texts it was innocent while I was watching the baby monitor (he knows I use his old phone for this purpose) but I’m worried he will be on the defensive and think that is what was happening. I’m not sure how to broach this with my husband. I can’t help but think my husband wouldn’t like it if I had a friend sending me naked pics of other guys. I don’t think my husband is the type to look this stuff up on his own and send stuff like that back to the guy I think he’s kind of the innocent victim of a dirty friend but it really bothers me. I know everyone is different but I will say my husband and I are conservative Christians and I don’t find this appropriate content for a married man to be looking at another woman’s boobs. A couple of times this guy has sent my husband a message and I haven’t clicked on it to read it but I popped up on the phone while I was watching our son on the monitor and I could tell it was a picture of a woman’s naked boobs, etc. my husband’s old phone is connected to WiFi and so iMessages still pop up through wifi. When my son is napping my husband and I use his old phone to watch the camera and then I use my phone to make phone calls for work, read things, watch a movie on the off chance I’m bored etc. So my husband’s old phone has turned into the baby monitor for the nest. The husband is friendly and nice but sends my husband inappropriate texts messages. The wife and I have gotten to know each other running into each other around the neighborhood and meeting at the park with the kids a couple of times. They don’t really ever hang out because honestly we have like no free time but the other guy is always saying to my husband that they need to get together and have drinks, play golf, etc. So we have these neighbors down the street and my husband first became friends with the husband.
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